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大师修炼手册 通向大师之路

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I remember at college, I had to take a bunch of classes that I wasn't interested in.

记得上大学的时候,我不得不参加一些我不感兴趣的课程。
And each class only lasted about 53 minutes.
每节课只持续53分钟。
And I would look at the clock every two minutes, I couldn't focus on anything,
我每两分钟就看一次表,不能专注于任何事情,
and I couldn't wait for the class to be over.
迫不及待的想要下课。
Well, maybe I should've gotten a prescription for some Adderall.
或许我应该去开点处方药阿得拉(治疗多动症的药)。
Or maybe not, because I can now work on projects that I'm interested in for 20 hours straight.
也或许不用,因为我可以在我感兴趣的项目上连续工作20个小时。
And this is why everyone's basically mediocre at what they do.
这就是所有人在他们的工作上都很平庸的原因。
As soon as you're a little kid, your parents start pressuring you to become something that doesn't interest you.
当你还是个小孩的时候,父母开始给你施压让你去做一些你不感兴趣的事情。
I mean, You want to be a composer? Are you out of your mind?
我是说,你想成为一个作曲家吗?你脑子是不是有毛病?
And not only are people around you constantly pressuring you, but then you start to pressure yourself...
不仅是你周围的人持续给你施加压力,你也开始给自己施压…
"well, you know, maybe I can make more money being a doctor.
“你知道的,或许成为医生会赚更多的钱。
I know I can't stop playing the piano day and night, but maybe being a doctor is a safer choice."
我知道我不能停止白天黑夜的练琴,但是成为医生是更安全的选择。”
And then you end up in a class learning about the Krebs cycle and looking at the clock every two minutes.
然后你就会在学习三羧酸循环和不停的看表当中完成上课。
And that's our problem. We have too many Mozarts who were forced to become a doctor.
那就是我们的问题。有很多在音乐方面有才能的人却要被逼成为医生。
And then you go visit that Mozart doctor when you're sick, and you can just tell that he doesn't give a shit.
当你生病的时候,去找那些被逼成为医生的人看病,你能看出来他对医学根本不感兴趣。
He hands you the prescription and then you leave.
他给你开了药,你就离开了。
Now, I've had to deal with quite a few doctors,
现在,我和很多医生打过交道,
and it always amazes me when I walk in there knowing more about my condition than he does.
我在那里比他还更了解我的症状,这很让我惊讶。
And I don't even blame him! He didn't want to be a doctor, he wanted to be a composer.
我甚至没有责备他。他不想成为医生,想成为作曲家。
Now he goes home, and instead of being excited about finding a solution to my condition, he watches TV.
现在他回到家,没有给我寻找治病的办法,而是在看电视。
He's not missing out on sleep because he's researching too much, he can't even wait to leave work.
他并不是因为过度钻研调查而缺乏睡眠,他是迫不及待的想要摆脱这份工作。
Don't give into that pressure!
不要屈服于这种压力!
Yeah, you might end up with a good job, a nice car, a nice house, I'll give you all that.
是的,你或许会有好工作,好车,好房子,我都给你。
But I will guarantee you one thing. You will never have a chance at mastery.
但是我向你保证。你永远不会有机会达到精通的水平。
Because you won't be able to dedicate the required thousands and thousands of hours to it.
因为你不能投入为此需要付出的成千上万个小时。
Because you won't know what it's like to wake up and work on something until you fall asleep.
因为你不会知道醒来就一直工作到睡觉是什么样子的情形。
Then dream about it, and wake up and start doing it again. You won't know what that's like!
然后梦见它,醒来后再继续重复。你不会知道那种情形!
And here's the thing... I'm not even coming from some romantic place of you should probably do what you enjoy in life,
是这样的…我并不是从“做你一生所爱的事情”这种浪漫主义角度出发。
which is probably the best advice I could give.
这可能是我能给出的最好的建议。
But forget that, I'm coming from a purely mastery perspective.
但是请忘记,我是从纯粹的精通的角度出发。
You're going to have to put in thousands and thousands of hours into your craft to become a master.
你需要在你的领域投入成千上万个小时才能成为大师。
There's no other option!
别无选择!
And you're simply, physically not going to be able to do that if you don't follow your inclination and do what you're deeply interested in.
很简单,如果不是顺从自己的意愿做你感兴趣的事情,你不可能坚持那么长时间。
The whole idea here is that you have a limited amount of time.
这里主要说的就是你的时间有限。
You can't be spending days and weeks figuring things out on your own when you can be taught in a couple of hours.
如果有些事别人在几小时内就能教会你,那你就不会花费数天或数周去苦思冥想。
So here are the three steps that you have to follow with your apprenticeship.
以下是你在学徒期必须遵循的三个步骤。
First: deep observation.
第一:深入观察。
You walk in there. You're not making the mistake of asserting yourself like everyone else.
你去到那里。不要像其他人那样去表明自己的主张。
You don't try to show everyone how talented you are. You don't try to invent things.
不要向别人展示你多么有天赋。不要尝试发明东西。
This is a time to observe everything. How does the system work?
这段时期是用来观察一切的。系统如何工作?
What are the people who are successful in my niche doing?
我领域里的那些成功人士都做了什么?
Now, not a 100% of what you observe and learn is going to be right or optimal in any apprenticeship or from any mentor.
你在任何学徒期或是导师的指导中所发现和学到的东西都不是100%正确和最优的。
But that doesn't matter.
但是那没关系。
This is not your time to tell people how you've researched things on your own
这段时间不需要你去告诉别人你自己是如何研究某事
and have found more effective ways of doing things.
以及发现了更高效的办事方法。
Second: skills acquisition.
第二:技能获取。
This is where you start putting in your 10,000 hours that everyone talks about.
这里你要开始投入别人所说的10000个小时了。
If you're a writer, you're writing all day, you're racking up those hours.
如果你是作家,就整天写作,把那些时间积累起来。
And finally, once you have completed that and you're ready,
最后,一旦你完成了并准备就绪,
you take everything you've learned, you take that foundation and skill,
你掌握了所学的全部,掌握了基础和技巧,
and put your own uniqueness on it and create something great.
并发挥了自己的独特性,创造了很棒的东西。
This would be a good time to start implementing that thing that you researched that might make you more efficient.
这将是一个开始实施你研究成果的好时机,这会让你更有效率。
So that's the model, and I see people ignoring it all the time, don't ignore it.
那就是模式,我看到人们一直忽略它,不要忽略。
The foundation is very similar for everything.
基础对于任何事情都是相似的。
You don't want to be the person learning how to do the foundation all on his own.
你不想成为那种自己学习如何建立基础的人。
People ask me all the time, "how do I start a business?"
人们一直问我,“我要怎么开始创业?”
Well, let's say it's an online business, follow the three steps.
比如说是网上生意,遵循三个步骤。
Take the successful ones you want to be like.
把你想成为的人作为自己的榜样。
What are they doing? "Oh look at that, their website looks like this."
他们做了什么?“哦快看,他们的网页是这样的。”
"They give a lot of value for free, I wonder why a bunch of capitalist pigs would do that."
“他们给了很多免费的福利,我想知道为什么那么多资本家会那么做呢。”
"Well, but look at that, they also have a product.
“但是,看那里,他们也有一种产品。
let me take a look at how they try to sell it to you."
让我看一下他们是如何尝试着销售给你的。
You do your deep observation. Now you've learned how the system works,
你进行深入观察,现在你知道了这个系统的运作,
it's time for you to put in your hours to create your website, create your product, start doing your marketing.
就该到你投入时间去创造你的网页,你的产品,开始你的营销了。
Now again, let's say you're doing everything on a platform like WordPress,
比如所有的一切你都是在类似博客的平台上做的,
you can either watch a guy explain the foundation of WordPress to you in a couple of hours,
你可以花几个小时观看某人的博客基础讲解,
or you can learn on your own for weeks.
也可以自学几个星期。
By the way, this is the beautiful thing about the time that we live in as well,
顺便,这也是活在现代最美好的一点,
you don't even have to know people for them to be your mentor.
你不需要去了解别人才能让他们成为你的导师。
And finally, you're not just creating a copy of someone else's business, that was just the foundation.
最后,你不只是创造了别人生意的翻版,那只是基础。
Now you put your own uniqueness on the website, you create a product that's better,
你放在网页上的东西具有自己的独特性,它更出色,
you take the general ideas of marketing but do it better.
你吸收了营销的大众点子,但是做的更好。
And that is how you end up with a successful business.
这就是成功的生意该有的样子。
I love the fact that this is included as one of the keys.
我很高兴这一点作为关键内容被包含在很多书里。
Every mastery book talks about the importance of things like practice,
每本讲大师的书都讨论练习的重要性,
which is crucial but so is social intelligence.
确实很重要,但是社会智商也很重要。

大师修炼手册 通向大师之路

You'll be messing up all the other keys without it.

没有它你会混淆其他关键因素。
Let's take a look at them...
让我们来看一下…
Following your inclination.
遵循你的爱好。
You have controlling parents and instead of appeasing them, and making them feel important,
如果你的父母有控制欲,不要顺着他们,不要再让他们感觉自我很重要,
and telling them how you can't wait to be whatever they're forcing you to be, you start conflict.
也不要告诉他们你多么想成为他们期望的样子,你应该开始反抗。
They kick you out of the house, you haven't developed your skills yet,
他们把你轰出家门,你还没有发展你的技能,
so now you're working at Mcdonalds, instead of being fed by mommy at home while you develop your skills.
所以你去麦当劳打工,而不是在家培养技能的同时还得靠父母养着。
Same thing with apprenticeship.
和学徒期一样。
Trying to walk in there and show people how hard working and talented you are. You think it's great.
尝试着去那里给大家展示你工作多么努力,多么有天赋。你觉得很好。
They're really going to appreciate you now.
他们现在真的很感激你。
Except for, that's not what they're thinking at all.
除了,他们不是那么想的。
You don't understand that you should never appear too perfect,
你不明白的是你不应该表现的太完美,
and eventually they've had enough of you and get rid of you. Same thing with mentors.
最后他们受够了你,排挤你。导师也是。
First of all, good luck getting a good mentor without social intelligence, but let's assume that you somehow did.
首先,祝你在没有社会智商的情况下得到一个好导师,但我们先假设你有点社会智商。
You start to share with him all the great ideas you have.
你开始和他分享你的好点子。
You want him to be really impressed by you, but you don't know that you should never outshine your master.
你想让他对你印象深刻,但是你不知道你的风头不应该强过你的导师。
So you get him insecure and he gets rid of you. I see this all the time.
所以你让他没有安全感,他会排挤你。这种事情一直都在发生。
Otherwise intelligent people who are also willing to put in all the hard work getting thrown off the path to mastery,
其他愿意投入全部努力却偏离通向精通道路的智慧人士,
and all because they don't cultivate any social intelligence.
都是因为他们没有培养任何社会智商。
If you had read Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People and Greene's The 48 Laws of Power,
如果你读过卡耐基的《怎样赢得朋友和影响他人》以及格林的《权力的48条法则》,
you wouldn't have made any of those mistakes.
就不会犯那些错误。
So let's talk about three types of minds: the original mind, the conventional mind, and the dimensional mind.
那么让我们来讨论一下三种思维形式:原始思维,传统思维和立体思维。
Here's the original mind.
原始思维如下。
Let's say you have a little kid who wants to be a teacher when he grows up.
比如有个长大后想当老师的小孩。
And you ask him, "Hey kid, what school do you want to teach at?"
你问他,“嘿,孩子,你想去什么学校任教?”
You might get a crazy answer like, "I'm going to teach the entire world."
你可能会得到一个疯狂的答案,:“我想教整个世界。”
And you're like, "Oh, that's really sweet." That's the original mind. It's crazy. It's creative.
你会说,“噢,那太棒了。”那就是原始思维。很疯狂,很有创造性。
Then you have the conventional mind.
然后你会有传统思维。
And this would be one of my old Phd professors at college.
这就是我大学的一个博士老教授。
If you asked one of them, "Hey, where would you like to teach?"
如果你问他,“嘿,您想去哪任教?”
You might get an answer like, "Well, of course, it would have to be harvard!"
你会听到,“嗯,当然是哈佛!”
That's the best thing his mind can come up with.
那是他能想到的最好的事情。
A class of 15 students at harvard.
一个有15位学生的哈佛班级。
Now, this professor might have put in thousands of hours into economics,
这个教授可能在经济学上投入了很多时间,
might know all the facts about everything, but his mind has lost all of its elasticity.
可能知道关于一切的所有事实,但是他的思维失去了所有的灵活性。
He can't think of anything crazy anymore. He can't think of anything creative anymore.
他不会再考虑任何疯狂的事情。不会再考虑任何有创造性的事情。
Finally, you have the dimensional mind.
最终,你会拥有立体思维。
And the dimensional mind combines the craziness and the creativity of the original mind,
立体思维把原始思维的疯狂和创造性,
with the mastery of thousands and thousands of hours of expertise.
同成千上万个小时的专业知识优势结合起来。
And when you combine these two, that's when you end up with true mastery.
当你把二者结合起来的时候,就是你真正掌握的时候。
The child has the original mind which is great, but he hasn't cultivated the skill to do anything great with it.
孩子拥有很好的原始思维,但是他并没有培养好好利用原始思维的技能。
The old professor has cultivated the skill, but has suppressed his original mind completely in the process.
老教书培养了技能,但在那个过程中却抑制了他的原始思维。
So he won't be able to do anything great either. Now let's go back to teaching the entire world.
所以他也不可能做出什么大事。现在让我们回到“教整个世界”这里来。
Sounds pretty crazy right? Actually, it's not that crazy.
听起来相疯狂是不是?事实上,并不是那么疯狂。
It's called Youtube. It's called the Internet. If the old professor had maintained the original mind,
它叫做优酷。又称为互联网。如果老教授能保持原始思维,
he wouldn't say something stupid like, "Youtube? isn't that the place for cat videos?"
他就不会说那些愚蠢的话,“Youtube?那不是播放猫咪视频的地方吗?”
"Uhh, no thanks, kid. I have a Phd. I have to get up at 6 tomorrow to go to my mediocre college and actually teach."
“噢,不,谢谢了,孩子。我有博士学位。我必须明天六点起床去我那所平庸的大学去教书。”
Alright professor, good luck teaching in your little classroom until you die.
好吧教授,祝你好运,在你的小教室里教书直到生命的尽头。
Here's another example...
以下是另一个例子…
what if I go up to him and say, "Hey, you don't have to be so dry when you teach."
如果我去找他说,“嘿,您上课的时候不能那么干巴巴的讲。”
"I have found a lot of success telling stories so people can resonate with it
“我发现了很多成功的故事,人们可以和它们产生共鸣,
and drawing stupid little cartoons so people can actually follow along."
还画了一些比较幼稚的动画那么人们可以很好的看下去。”
Do you know what happens in his mind at that point?
你知道那时他在想什么吗?
"Stories? drawing? I have a Phd! I can't engage in such frivolous matters!"
“故事?图画?我是博士!我不会参与那么无聊的事情的。”
And I'm like, "Uh, well, but, being lighthearted and learning something new don't necessarily have to be mutually exclusive, right?"
我说,“哦,好吧,但是保持轻松愉快和学习新事物并不互相排斥,不是吗?”
And he's like, "I don't know what you mean kid, if it's not dry, it's frivolous."
他说,“我不知道你在说什么孩子,它要么很干瘪,要么很无聊。”
Oh and he has a phd. you get the point... You have to maintain your original mind.
噢他是博士。你明白了…你必须保持你的原始思维。
Combine that with the thousands of hours of practicing your skill,
把它和你历练了上千个小时的技能结合起来,
and then you have a chance at doing great, amazing things.
那么你就有机会做很伟大迷人的事情。
That combination is the power of the dimensional mind.
那种组合就是立体思维的力量所在。
Again, we have different types of minds. The intuitive mind, and the rational mind. Both are extremely important.
我们有不同类型的思维。感性思维和理性思维。都很重要。
But we tend to value the rational mind and ignore the intuitive mind.
但我们通常重视理性思维而忽视感性思维。
Let me give you an example. Let's say you've spent thousands and thousands of hours investing in companies and products.
举个例子。比如你花了很多时间投资一家公司和产品。
Now someone presents to you their company or product,
现在某人给你展示他们的公司和产品,
and you can just sense that this is going to be huge.
你能感觉到这会是很大一笔交易。
Now you might have other friend investors tell you "You're crazy!
可能会有其他搞投资的朋友告诉你“你简直疯了!
You're paying too much because of this method of valuation, and this equation and that equation."
因为这种评价方法,这种等式那种等式,你付出了太多代价了。”
But if you've done this for a very long time, you might be seeing something that other people can't see.
但是如果你坚持了很长时间,你可能会看到一些别人看不到的事情。
It's almost hard to explain, but after all those hours, everything starts to come together.
这很难解释,但是很久过后,所有事情开始明了起来。
You start to see the whole picture. Now, I've been playing the piano for over a decade.
你开始看到整个场景。现在我已经弹了十多年钢琴。
When I first started, I had to be very rational about everything.
当我刚开始的时候,就很理性的对待所有事情。
It was like, I'm going to play c now. Now I'm going to play d.
就像是,我现在打算弹C调。现在打算弹D调。
But after all these years, sometimes I like to sit down and just play around and compose,
但是过了这些年,有时我喜欢坐下来只管弹奏和创作,
and my fingers just kind of run around on their own.
让我的手指自由发挥。
It's weird. There's almost no rationality involved, but somehow my fingers know where to go.
很奇怪。一点都不理性,但我的手指也知道怎样弹奏。
And keep in mind, this has always been just a hobby for me.
记住,这一直是我的习惯。
To think about what goes on in a person's head who's played for years and years focusing on becoming a master
去考虑一个弹琴多年专注成为大师的人脑子里在想什么,
is kind of scary for me to even think about.
这对我来说连想想都觉得可怕。
Now, there's nothing supernatural here.
这里没有什么是超自然的。
In fact, you can use the rational mind to explain in retrospect why Facebook might have been a great investment,
事实上,你可以用理性思维去解释之前为什么脸书是一个很好的投资,
or why some chord goes well with some key.
或者为什么有些和弦和调配合的那么和谐。
But the intuitive mind has a huge advantage over the rational mind in circumstances like this.
但是在这种情况下感性思维比理性思维更具优势。
Masters accomplish great things because they can combine the intuitive with the rational.
大师能完成伟大的事情,因为他们把感性和理性结合起来。
Alright everyone, that was Mastery by Robert Greene.
好吧各位,这就是罗伯特·格林的《精通》。
One of my favorite books. Definitely one of my favorite authors.
我最喜欢的书之一。的确也是我最喜欢的作者之一。
And you know, people ask me all the time, what books do you recommend?
你知道的,人们一直问我,你会推荐什么书?
Well if you haven't read this one, definitely read this along with the 48 laws of power.
如果你还没有读过这本书,一定要和《权力的48条法则》一起读一下。
And I just wanna say a huge thank you to Robert Greene.
我只想对罗伯特·格林先生致以我最大的谢意。
Fightmediocrity's actually getting about 10 of his mastery books,
“告别平庸”介绍了他的10本著作,
which is really really cool and I'm so excited, and I can't wait to give them away to you guys.
都很棒,我特别兴奋,迫不及待的想要送给大家。
So if you want one of those free copies, I'll be posting the details below the video here on Youtube.
如果你想要一本免费的翻本,我会在Youtube上把详细信息贴在视频下面。
Anyway, I hope you guys enjoyed this, thanks for watching, and have an awesome day!
无论如何,希望大家能够喜欢,谢谢观看,天天愉快!

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n. 专家的意见,专门技术

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creativity [.kri:ei'tiviti]

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n. 创造力,创造

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assume [ə'sju:m]

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vt. 假定,设想,承担; (想当然的)认为

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uniqueness [ju:'ni:knis]

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n. 唯一性,独特性

 
inclination [.inkli'neiʃən]

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n. 倾向,意愿,倾斜度

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combine [kəm'bain]

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v. 结合,联合,使结合
n. 集团,联合企业

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lighthearted ['lait'hɑ:tid]

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adj. 快乐的,心情愉快的;无忧无虑的

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effective [i'fektiv]

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adj. 有效的,有影响的

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romantic [rə'mæntik]

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adj. 浪漫的
n. 浪漫的人

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elasticity [elæs'tisəti]

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n. 弹力,弹性,伸缩性

 

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