They're empathetic.
他们会设身处地。
Part of effective listening is the effort to empathize with the person you're speaking with. Whether or not you're able to fully relate, your compassion won't go unnoticed. "Spend a moment putting yourself in their position, what's going through their head and what it must be like for them," Sacco says.
有效倾听的一部分就是要尝试站在和你讲话的人的角度。无论你是否能完全设身处地,你的恻隐之心不会被忽略。“花些时间把自己摆在他人的角度,想想他们脑中所想以及由此而生的感受,”萨科讲道。