By loving the person you are, you accept your humanity which is made up of inadequacies and accomplishments. The pressure is off then! The person you seek will not have the burden of “fixing” you because you’ve accepted yourself wholly. Having that comfort allows you to be open and accepting of others, and the exchange of emotions can begin.
爱自己,意味着接受你的人性是欠缺和成就并存的。这样压力就没了!你寻找的人不会为了要“拯救”你而心存负担,因为你已经全盘接受了自己。有了那种安慰,你就能放开和接受他人,然后情感交流就可以开始了。