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So you hate your boss, what do you do next?
如果你讨厌你的老板，接下来你会怎么做?
Hate is a powerful emotion, so the first thing you want to do is try to understand what's going on.
厌恶是一种强烈的情绪，所以你要做的第一件事就是试着理解发生了什么。
Are you being blocked in some way.
你在某种程度上被阻碍了吗?
Is there something unjust that's happening.
是不是发生了什么不公平的事情?
One way to do that is getting perspective on this problem, talking to people you trust.
要做到这一点，方法之一就是找到解决问题的角度，与你信任的人交谈。
Sometimes that means talking to a friend outside of your work, sometimes it means talking to a trusted colleague inside your organization.
有时这意味着与工作之外的朋友交谈，有时意味着与公司内部值得信赖的同事交谈。
Through those conversations you can figure out what needs to change in the relationship between you and your boss.
通过这些对话，你可以弄清楚你和老板之间的关系需要做出什么改变。
Then you can use this negotiating skill called dear man in a conversation with your boss.
然后，你可以在与老板的谈话中使用这种被称为“亲爱的人”的谈判技巧。
Describe the situation from your perspective, express how it's impacting you and your work, assert the changes you want to see at your workplace.
从你的角度描述情况，表达它如何影响你和你的工作，坚持你希望在工作场所看到的变化。
Reinforce how this is going to be good for you, your boss and your organization.
强调这对你、你的老板和你的组织都有好处。
Stay mindfully focused on your goal, don't try to negotiate a bunch of different things at once.
保持专注于你的目标，不要试图一次谈判一堆不同的事情。
Appear confident calm and collected, don't make this personal, don't get emotional.
表现得自信、冷静、镇定，不要针对个人，不要情绪化。
And negotiate during the conversation, give it some time and if things don't work out, that's when you might want to consider a bigger change.
在谈话中进行协商，给公司一些时间，如果事情不成功，那就可能是到了你想要考虑更大改变的时候。
