I have a friend who put her career on hold after she got married and had children. She stayed at home until the oldest was four years old, _56_ she began doing part-time jobs to get out of the house. That wasn't enough, so she took a full-time job, which _57_ her to travel. She was making more money than her husband, even _58_ four years off the market. Her in-laws, who believe a woman's only function is housekeeping, _59_ to her husband with their negative opinions. Emotionally torn (受折磨的), he wanted to _60_ his wife but was conditioned by loyalty (忠实) to his parents' ideals. Naturally, his wife also felt _61_, eager to purse her vision but emotionally invested in her husband and family.
I _62_ her to go with her vision, because it's her life. Too many women give up their career dreams to _63_ a relationship. That's traditional, but it can _64_ you crazy. And some dreams, if you don't purse them in time, will pass you _65_. When you're finally free to go _66_ them, you've _67_ the window of opportunity. After further discussion, her husband went along, _68_ he valued the relationship as much as she did.
Conversely (相反地), a former student, whose husband felt _69_ by her earning more money than he did, ended her _70_ consulting practice and gave up a six-figure income. To _71_ conflict in her relationship, she abandoned her passion. Maybe she should have abandoned her husband's _72_ thinking and surrounded herself instead with people who believed in her.
A relationship must be mutually _73_, and any genuine relationship will adjust to change. When you recognize that a relationship is putting out your fire, ask yourself _74_ you should gracefully go away and realize your dreams. Communicate how much your vision means to you, do it in a relationship-friendly _75_, and the people in your life will surprise you.
56. A. what B. where C. which D. when
57. A. requested B. aroused C. required D. provided
58. A. beside B. after C. beyond D. before
59. A. complained B. governed C. quarreled D. sympathized
60. A. separate B. guarantee C. support D. oppose
61. A. relieved B. confirmed C. resolved D. conflicted
62. A. objected B. encouraged C. perceived D. released
63. A. protect B. destroy C. provide D. resemble
64. A. do B. drive C. look D. find
65. A. in B. out C. by D. off
66. A. among B. through C. before D. after
67. A. missed B. acquired C. received D. forgot
68. A. although B. while C. because D. however
69. A. conquered B. threatened C. transformed D. assured
70. A. successful B. thoughtful C. revolutionary D. primitive
71. A. explore B. defeat C. approach D. avoid
72. A. enforced B. limited C. ventured D. extended
73. A. logical B. successive C. beneficial D. synthetic
74. A. whether B. where C. how D. which
75. A. path B. route C. road D. way