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我们来到这个世上，到底追求什么才是最重要的？他坚定地认为：幸福感是衡量人生的唯一标准，是所有目标的最终目标。塔尔博士在哈佛学生中享有很高的声誉，受到学生们的爱戴与敬仰，被誉为"最受欢迎讲师"和"人生导师"。
adj. 认命的，顺从的，听任的 动词resign的过去
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- How come they end up in a rehab center? How come they are unhappy? Here's the how come.
- 为什么他们最后还要进心理治疗中心？为什么会不开心？现在就来说说原因
- You see, for years, when they climb up the ranks, when they have the dream of becoming
- 多年来，他们不断努力向上，他们心怀梦想，希望成为
- a famous person, a person who is admired, revered, a person who can get
- 名人，渴望得到别人的尊敬，渴望得到
- anything or anyone almost they want, when they dream about it, they may be unhappy.
- 一切想要的东西或人。当他们梦想这些的时候，他们可能是不开心
- But they say to themselves, "OK. I'm unhappy now, but I'll be happy when I get there."
- 但他们对自己说“好吧，我现在不开心，但我成功后会很开心”。
- And then they get there. And they realize that there's no "there" there.
- 然后他们成功了。他们意识到并没有料想中的开心，
- They think it would make them happy, but it doesn't.
- 他们以为那会让他们开心，但没有
- And that's when the real problems begin. Because that's when they begin to experience helplessness.
- 那时真正的问题才到来，因为到那时他们才开始体会到无助，
- That's when they become resigned. That's when they go into- on the Hamburger model,
- 那时他们就会放弃，那时他们就变得……根据汉布格尔的模型，
- that's when they go into the learned helplessness and resignation and the nihilism.
- 他们会患上习得性无助，自我放弃和怀疑主义
- Because everyone has told them that once they make it then they'll be happy.
- 因为大家都跟他们说，他们实现了这事就会快乐，
- And they told themselves, "once I make it then I'll be happy".
- 而他们也对自己说过“一实现了这事，就会快乐”，
- And they are not any happier for it. Yeah, initially when the fame begins,
- 但他们并不为此而更快乐
- and when they start having things in their way as they always dream, of course they are happier.
- 一开始，当刚开始有点名气，他们刚开始走上成功之路，他们常常梦想成功，当然就会快乐一点。
- But then they go back to their base level. And when they go to their base level,
- 但之后他们又回到基础水平。当回到基础水平，
- they are suppressed, they are upset, they are disappointed, and more than anything, they are scared.
- 他们很压抑，很沮丧，失望，更甚的是，他们很害怕
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| 重点单词 | 查看全部解释 | |||
| resigned | [ri'zaind] | 联想记忆 | ||
| base | [beis] | |||
| resignation | [.rezig'neiʃən] | 联想记忆 | ||
| unhappy | [ʌn'hæpi] | |||
| upset | [ʌp'set] | 联想记忆 | ||
| initially | [i'niʃəli] | |||
| disappointed | [.disə'pɔintid] |
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