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我们来到这个世上，到底追求什么才是最重要的？他坚定地认为：幸福感是衡量人生的唯一标准，是所有目标的最终目标。塔尔博士在哈佛学生中享有很高的声誉，受到学生们的爱戴与敬仰，被誉为"最受欢迎讲师"和"人生导师"。
n. 意图，意向，目的
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- You know when I initially started to teach, I really wanted the validation from the students. So how can I have my students perceive me as a good teacher?
- 我刚开始教书时我非常希望得到学生的认可。我如何能使学生觉得我是个好老师呢
- I want them to like me. And you know, that's important for everyone. We all like to be liked.
- 我希望他们喜欢我。这对每个人来说都很重要。我们都希望被喜欢
- However, when I switched my focus, and yeah, I still want to be liked, but my main focus is I want my students to know me.
- 但当我转换注意力，对我仍然希望被喜欢，但我主要的注意力在于我希望学生了解我
- I want them to know the topic that I'm most passionate about in the world.
- 我希望他们了解我对这世界最有兴趣和激情的事物
- That really changed a lot. It's no longer to be validated, i. e. to appear perfect,
- 这确实改变了我很多，不再是得到认可，也就是说，变得完美
- but it was to be known as a human being, of course, permission to be human.
- 而是作为一个人被了解，当然了，准许自己为人
- And that actually improved my teaching a great deal and I enjoyed it so much more. Because there is so much less pressure on us
- 而这实际上大大地促进了我的教学，我也更喜欢教课了。因为我们之间的关系
- in a relationship, any relationship, when we go in with the intention of being known of expressing rather than impressing.
- 不再有那么大的压力，不管是什么关系，只要我们抱着被了解的愿望重在表达而非使人记住
- We can feel so much lighter. And the wonderful thing is, that it also makes the relationship so much healthier.
- 我们会如释重负，而更好的是，这使得一段关系更健康
- But again, much more on it, because it is so important. So important topic.
- 我还会讲得更多，因为这非常重要。是非常重要的话题
- We talked about this a lot. How do we perceive failure, as a stumbling block? A catastrophe? Or as an opportunity? As a growth experience?
- 我们经常讲这个。我们如何理解失败，绊脚石？灾难？还是作为一次机会，或成长的经历？
- And that can make all the difference. We'll talk about it after spring break when we discuss perfectionism and the fear of failure.
- 这都会有很大的区别。春假之后我们会再学习，我们会讨论完美主义以及对失败的恐惧
- And finally, the study that you read by Ali Crum and Ellen Langer.
- 最后讲一下，你们读到的阿里·克拉姆和艾伦·兰格做的研究
- So just give you a little bit background about the study and I will briefly mention it, hopefully you've read it already.
- 先给你们讲点这个研究的背景，我会简要地提一提，希望你们都已经读过了
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| 重点单词 | 查看全部解释 | |||
| intention | [in'tenʃən] | 联想记忆 | ||
| block | [blɔk] | |||
| opportunity | [.ɔpə'tju:niti] | |||
| initially | [i'niʃəli] | |||
| pressure | ['preʃə] | 联想记忆 | ||
| perceive | [pə'si:v] | 联想记忆 | ||
| permission | [pə'miʃən] | 联想记忆 | ||
| catastrophe | [kə'tæstrəfi] | 联想记忆 | ||
| validation | [,væli'deiʃən] | |||
| passionate | ['pæʃənit] | 联想记忆 |
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