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我们来到这个世上，到底追求什么才是最重要的？他坚定地认为：幸福感是衡量人生的唯一标准，是所有目标的最终目标。塔尔博士在哈佛学生中享有很高的声誉，受到学生们的爱戴与敬仰，被誉为"最受欢迎讲师"和"人生导师"。
vt. 显示，透露
n. (外墙与门或窗之间的
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- This has implications for child rearing.
- 这对抚养孩子有意义
- This has implications, of course, for education. It has implications for society as a whole.
- 当然，对教育也有意义。对社会整体有意义
- This is a topic I am going to talk about a lot. I am going to dedicate much time when we discuss relationships.
- 这是我即将深入讨论的一个话题。我会花很多时间讨论情感关系
- But just very briefly, this understanding for me transformed, literally transformed my relationship with my wife.
- 不过先简要地提提，这个理解改变了，真的改变了我和我妻子的关系
- It transformed... It is transforming my relationship with my friends, as well as students and colleagues.
- 它改变了，它正在改变我和我朋友的关系以及我的学生和同事
- You see, we go into a relationship. Most people think that important thing about relationship is that we are validated, as we get pads on our back.
- 我们卷入一段关系。大多数人觉得情感关系的重要之处在于我们可以得到认可，有人能在背后做支柱
- Now that's important in our relationship. Surely important to be validated in any relationship,
- 这在我们的关系中确实是重要的。得到认可很重要，在任何关系中都是如此，
- whether it's with you know students/teacher, whether it's with friends, certainly in romantic relationship.
- 不管是师生之间，朋友之间，当然也在爱人之间
- However, what David Schnarch talks about is that primarily if we want long-term, successful, thriving, passionate relationships,
- 但是大卫·史纳屈想说的是如果我们想要长期的、成功的、健康、有激情的关系
- the first objective, the primary objective is to go into relationship to be known.
- 那首要目标，最基本的目标是通过关系被了解
- To be known, rather than to be validated, meaning going in there and saying "OK so how can my partner get to know me even better?"
- 被了解，而不是得到认可，也就是说，你想着“我的伙伴如何才能更了解我呢”
- Doing it gradually of course. On the first date, you don't want to reveal all your secrets.
- 当然了，要循序渐进。在第一次约会上，你肯定不会想说出所有秘密
- Doing it gradually. You know, thinking about it, but opening up more and more.
- 循序渐进。想着这一点，慢慢地敞开心扉
- And couples who over time open up more and more are able to sustain the relationship as well as their passion, over time.
- 能够逐渐逐渐敞开心扉的夫妇更能够维持他们的关系以及激情
- And again, I am going to talk about much more... I am going to devote two classes at least to relationships.
- 我还会就此讲得更多……我会用至少两节课来讲情感关系
- This is going to be one of the central pillars of successful long-term relationships. Also with the students, the same applies.
- 这将是成功的长期关系的中流砥柱之一。对于学生，也是一样适用
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