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哈佛大学公开课《幸福课》(视频+MP3+双语字幕):第441期

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  • And positive emotions and painful emotions often flow through the same emotional pathways.
  • 而所有积极和痛苦的情绪都流动于同一条情绪通路
  • And when we're limiting one, we're very often limiting the other.
  • 当我们限制其一的时候,我们也限制了另一方
  • So if we open up the pathways, give ourselves the permission to be human
  • 因此如果我们开启通路,接受自己全然为人
  • and give ourselves the permission to cry when we're sad or ecstatic.
  • 无论是出于悲伤或极度的喜悦,允许自己哭泣
  • That very often opens up, makes it more likely that we experience positive emotions as well
  • 我们就能开启通路让自己更容易感受到积极的情绪
  • Paradoxical, but this is the paradox of the permission to be human.
  • 看似矛盾,但这就是全然为人的隽语
  • When we give ourselves permission to experience painful emotions, we're more likely to experience the positive emotions.
  • 当我们允许自己感受痛苦的情绪,我们就会更容易感受到积极的情绪
  • Mindfulness, being present.
  • 还有就是专注力,感受当下
  • Lot of time when we are listening to music, for example, really listening to music,
  • 举个例子,很多时候,当我们听音乐就是全神贯注的听音乐的时候
  • not just having it as background while text messaging, doing homework, and talking to our friends. But when we really listen to
  • 不是放着背景音乐,在一边发短信,做功课和朋友聊天。而是全神贯注的听
  • music that we love, very often we have a peak experience being present.
  • 我们喜欢的音乐,很多时候,我们会有临场的高峰体验
  • According to Maslow's research, these are two of the most likely, most likely areas where we can experience the peak experience.
  • 根据马斯洛的理论,这两个条件能令我们最可能获得高峰体验
  • And by the way this I believe is, is innate.
  • 顺便说一下,我相信这也是一种天赋
  • You know even I see with, with Sherio, my one year old daughter.
  • 我从我一岁的女儿谢里奥身上看到了
  • You know when there is music, when we dance, she laughs.
  • 这种天赋,每当音乐响起,我们随之起舞
  • This is not something we taught her.
  • 她就会开心的笑,这不是我们教她的
  • We were born with, with this inclination for music and dance. We need to take time for that.
  • 人对音乐和舞蹈的爱好是天生的。我们需要花时间去发掘这种天赋
  • Having a meaningful goal. When we're on purpose, when we're doing things that we love to do,
  • 制定一个有意义的目标,当我们有所追求,做自己爱做的事情
  • when what we are, we are doing is meaningful and significant to us, we're much more likely to experience peak experiences.
  • 做自己觉得有意义,重要的事情,我们更容易获得高峰体验


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我们来到这个世上,到底追求什么才是最重要的?他坚定地认为:幸福感是衡量人生的唯一标准,是所有目标的最终目标。塔尔博士在哈佛学生中享有很高的声誉,受到学生们的爱戴与敬仰,被誉为"最受欢迎讲师"和"人生导师"。


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paradoxical [pærə'dɔksikəl]

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adj. 似是而非的,矛盾的,诡论的

 
inclination [.inkli'neiʃən]

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n. 倾向,意愿,倾斜度

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permission [pə'miʃən]

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n. 同意,许可,允许

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innate ['in'eit]

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adj. 天生的,固有的

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paradox ['pærədɔks]

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n. 悖论,矛盾(者)

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emotional [i'məuʃənl]

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adj. 感情的,情绪的

 

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