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- Here's one of the surprising findings that Sonja Lyubomirsky found.
- 有一项惊人的发现是索尼娅·柳博米尔斯基的发现
- What she found is that if we write that letter, we get the spike in wellbeing even if we don't send it.
- 她发现如果我们写了那封信,就算不寄出去,幸福感也能达到的峰值
- Obviously if we send it and we get feedback, the spike is even higher.
- 寄出去当然会得到回应,峰值会更高
- But just the act of writting it, of being grateful, being open, that in and of itself contributes to wellbeing. Next week,
- 但仅仅是书写,感受感激之情,敞开心扉,这样做的本身也有助提升幸福感。下周
- your response paper is going to be a letter of gratitude,
- 你们的功课就是一封感激信
- which we will highly recommend you visit the person and read it to them or, at the very least, send it if you are not close to them now physically.
- 我们强烈建议你们去拜访对方,把信读给他们,或者最起码,把信寄出去,如果你们相隔很远
- But even if you just write it and don't feel comfortable sending it, that in and of itself contributes to our wellbeing.
- 但即使是写了信却不好意思寄出去,那同样能提升你的幸福感
- I want to go a little bit more in depth into how we express gratitude and in general, how we deal with painful and positive emotions.
- 我想再深入谈谈如何表达感激,再概况谈谈如何应对痛苦和积极的情绪
- Once again, Sonja Lyubomirsky did research, while she invited participants to talk about
- 再次引用索尼娅·柳博米尔斯基所做的研究,她邀请参与者谈论
- or to share the worst experiences of their lives and the best experiences of their lives.
- 分享生活中最糟的经历和最好的经历
- And what she did was divide them actually to four groups. One group
- 她所做的是把他们分成四组。第一组
- write about it. Write about the ABC, the affect — the emotion, the behavior — what you did then, and the cognition- what you thought then.
- 写出来。写出三方面,一是影响,也就是情感,二是行为,即当时你做了什么,三是认知,即当时的想法
- Three times on three consecutive days for 15 minutes.
- 连续三天,每天一次,每次15分钟
- First group just wrote about it.
- 第一组只是写出来
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课程简介:
我们来到这个世上,到底追求什么才是最重要的?他坚定地认为:幸福感是衡量人生的唯一标准,是所有目标的最终目标。塔尔博士在哈佛学生中享有很高的声誉,受到学生们的爱戴与敬仰,被誉为"最受欢迎讲师"和"人生导师"。
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单词affect 联想记忆: af一再,fect做,力求-力求使人做-影响
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grateful
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单词grateful 联想记忆: grate感激+ful表形容词,“有…的”→感激的
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单词response 联想记忆: re回+spond承诺→承诺回去;respond的名词→回答;答应
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gratitude
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单词gratitude 联想记忆: grat感激,高兴+itude状态→感激,感恩
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recommend
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单词recommend 联想记忆: 源于:commend(v 称赞;推荐)
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