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哈佛大学公开课《幸福课》(视频+MP3+双语字幕):第386期

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  • What did she or he do for me that has contributed so much to my life, to who I am today?
  • 她或他都为我做了什么,对我的人生帮助良多,让我成为今天的我
  • Or my roommate who always goes out of his or her way to help. I am really grateful.
  • 我的室友总是尽其所能帮我。我真得很感激
  • And to think about it. Not just to, you know, at the end of year or of the summer, "oh you are great. You are terrific."
  • 要去静思,而不是在学年或学期未,说"你很好,棒极了"
  • Really think about what these people, the important people in your life are doing for you and express it. Don't take that for granted.
  • 真正用心去思考这些人,你生命中的重要的人为你做了什么,然后再表达出来。不要视之为理所当然
  • Don't take for granted the fact that they know how grateful you are.
  • 不要认为他们理应知道你心怀感激
  • "Yeah, of course mom knows. Of course dad knows that I'm grateful and they are terrific."
  • "是的,妈妈当然知道,爸爸当然知道我感激他们,他们很棒"
  • Don't take it for granted. Express it.
  • 不要视之为理所当然,表达出来
  • Again, write it in a letter or by phone or in person. One of the most effective interventions out there today
  • 写信,致电或面对面说都可以。当今最有效的一种干预形式
  • is expressing gratitude to others especially this one:
  • 是向他人表达感激之情,尤其是这种方法
  • writting a letter of gratitude and then visiting the person to whom you are writting and reading them the letter.
  • 写一封表达感激的信然后去拜访收信人,再把信读给他们听
  • Cheesy? I agree. A little bit embarrassing? Sometimes.
  • 俗气?同意,难为情?有时是的
  • You cannot imagine the kind of result that people get when doing just this gratitude visit.
  • 你无法想像人们做感激拜访时获得的结果
  • But even if you don't visit them, you do feel self-conscious doing it.
  • 但即使你不去拜访他们你觉得害羞
  • I do recommend it. But you feel self-conscious, send the letter,
  • 我建议去拜访。如果你觉得害羞,那就把信寄出去
  • make that phone call. And before, just think for a few minutes, "what am I going to say? What am I really grateful for?"
  • 再打电话。致电前思考几分钟,我要说些什么?我到底感激什么
  • Again, whether it's to your parents, whether it's to your friends, whether it's to your 1st grade teacher. Just do it. Whether it's to your coach.
  • 不论是对你的父母,或朋友,或是一年级老师,去做吧,或者是对你们的教练


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课程简介:

我们来到这个世上,到底追求什么才是最重要的?他坚定地认为:幸福感是衡量人生的唯一标准,是所有目标的最终目标。塔尔博士在哈佛学生中享有很高的声誉,受到学生们的爱戴与敬仰,被誉为"最受欢迎讲师"和"人生导师"。


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grateful ['greitfəl]

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adj. 感激的,感谢的

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coach [kəutʃ]

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n. 大巴,教练;(火车)客车车厢,四轮马车,经济舱

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minutes ['minits]

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n. 会议记录,(复数)分钟

 
recommend [.rekə'mend]

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vt. 建议,推荐,劝告
vt. 使成为可取,

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effective [i'fektiv]

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adj. 有效的,有影响的

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gratitude ['grætitju:d]

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n. 感恩之心

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