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我们来到这个世上，到底追求什么才是最重要的？他坚定地认为：幸福感是衡量人生的唯一标准，是所有目标的最终目标。塔尔博士在哈佛学生中享有很高的声誉，受到学生们的爱戴与敬仰，被誉为"最受欢迎讲师"和"人生导师"。
n. 大灾难，大祸，彻底失败
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- However, the difference between a merit finder and, sorry, a benefit finder and a fault finder is that,
- 但是积极者，对不起，积极者和消极者的区别在于
- the benefit finder understands that while things don't necessarily happen for the best, it is possible to make the best of things that happen.
- 积极者明白这世界是不会事事如愿的，但我们可以扭转坏事
- Things will be OK. Things will turn out fine. It may take a while.
- 事情会好转的，一切会变顺利的，可能需要点时间
- Until I see the benefit of it, it may take a while and I will get over the humiliation or the pain or the disappointment. But that, too, shall pass.
- 可能要过一段时间才能看到曙光，可能要过一段时间才能忘了羞辱痛苦失望，但一切不好的事都会过去
- In other words, The benefit finder understands that these feelings are temporary,
- 也就是说，积极者明白这些感觉是暂时的
- gives him or herself the permission to be human and then understands things will turn out fine at the end. I know that. Been there. Done that.
- 他会允许自己有人之常情，他会明白事情最后会好转的。我明白这点，发生的都发生了
- Part of life. Permission to be human, which includes permission to experience these emotions and also the permission to fail.
- 这就是人生，允许自己有人之常情，包括允许自己感受这些负面情绪，允许自己失败
- We'll talk a lot about this permission to fail when we talk about perfectionism. Because perfectionism is real intense for your failure or we feel it's all or nothing.
- 我们稍后会深入讲允许自己失败，等我们讲到完美主义时，因为完美主义对失败有强烈的情绪，如果做不到最好的，那就是最差的
- Either we have a complete flawless record, or it's useless.
- 如果你不是完美无瑕，那你就是一无是处
- It's either phenomenal, or catastrophe. All or nothing.
- 要么就是非凡，要么就是平庸，没有中间地带
- The benefit finder understands that nature, the human nature dictates that we have painful emotions and human nature, or being human dictates we also fail.
- 积极者明白人的本性决定了我们会有痛苦的情绪，人的本性或者说是人就会有失败的时候
- And that, too, shall pass.
- 但失败会过去的
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| 重点单词 | 查看全部解释 | |||
| catastrophe | [kə'tæstrəfi] | 联想记忆 | ||
| humiliation | [hju:.mili'eiʃən] | 联想记忆 | ||
| fault | [fɔ:lt] | |||
| intense | [in'tens] | 联想记忆 | ||
| temporary | ['tempərəri] | 联想记忆 | ||
| permission | [pə'miʃən] | 联想记忆 | ||
| flawless | ['flɔ:lis] | 联想记忆 | ||
| disappointment | [.disə'pɔintmənt] | |||
| benefit | ['benifit] | 联想记忆 |
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