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哈佛大学公开课《幸福课》(视频+MP3+双语字幕):第309期

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  • They experience painful emotions, the difference between them and the rest was
  • 他们经历过痛苦,他们与剩下的人之间的区别是
  • that they recovered more promptly as a result of different interpretations.
  • 由于不同的诠释,他们恢复得更迅速
  • So when they felt down, they were optimistic instead of saying "ok, so I'm going to feel down for the rest of the month",
  • 所以他们沮丧时,他们很乐观,不说“这个月剩下的日子我都会沮丧”
  • they said "ok, so I'm feeling down, big deal.
  • 他们说“我很沮丧,没什么大不了”
  • What can I learn from it? What happen? How can I make myself feel better?"
  • 我能从中学到什么?发生了什么?我怎样让自己感觉好点
  • And then they recovered more promptly than the pessimists, the people who remained depressed for a much longer time.
  • 然后他们比悲观者恢复得更快,悲观者会沮丧很长一段时间
  • You see, events happen, things happen in the world, very often out of our control.
  • 事件发生,世上有很多事发生,经常不受我们的控制
  • We don't create everything that we encounter.
  • 我们不能创造所有遇到的事物
  • And some of the events are bad, some are negative.
  • 有些事件是不好的,有些是消极的
  • What matters more is what we do with them after, how we evaluate them.
  • 更重要的是我们之后怎样对待它们,怎样评估它们
  • And what happens is that our evaluation becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, because a pessimist will say
  • 事实上我们的评估成了自我实现预言,因为悲观者会说
  • "I'm in a bad mood now, it's going to last for a very long time, it's not going to go away",
  • "我现在心情不好会持续很长时间,不会消失"
  • whereas an optimist says "it's temporary, it's going to go away" and believes our self-fulfilling prophecies.
  • 而乐观者会说"这是暂时的,会消失的",并相信我们的自我实现预言
  • If I believe that it will last for six months, it's much more likely,
  • 如果我认为它会持续六个月,它更有可能
  • not necessarily, but it's much more likely to last for six months than if I say "that too shall pass".
  • 不一定,但更可能持续六个月,比我说“那也会过去的”


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课程简介:

我们来到这个世上,到底追求什么才是最重要的?他坚定地认为:幸福感是衡量人生的唯一标准,是所有目标的最终目标。塔尔博士在哈佛学生中享有很高的声誉,受到学生们的爱戴与敬仰,被誉为"最受欢迎讲师"和"人生导师"。


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evaluation [i.vælju'eiʃən]

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n. 估价,评价

 
optimistic [.ɔpti'mistik]

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adj. 乐观的,乐观主义的

 
prophecy ['prɔfisi]

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n. 预言,先兆,预言能力 =prophesy

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pessimist ['pesimist]

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n. 悲观主义者

 
temporary ['tempərəri]

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adj. 暂时的,临时的
n. 临时工

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control [kən'trəul]

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n. 克制,控制,管制,操作装置
vt. 控制

 
encounter [in'kauntə]

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n. 意外的相见,遭遇
v. 遇到,偶然碰到,

 
negative ['negətiv]

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adj. 否定的,负的,消极的
n. 底片,负

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depressed [di'prest]

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adj. 沮丧的,降低的,不景气的,萧条的,凹陷的,扁平

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promptly [prɔmptli]

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adv. 敏捷地,迅速地

 

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