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我们一直来受到的教育是"不要和陌生人说话,陌生人是危险的",本期TED演讲者Kio Stark女士却对这一观点提出质疑。她的经历和观察告诉了她：如果我们能够推翻对陌生人的成见会带来意想不到的惊喜。让我们终止无数的猜忌,创造一个更美好的世界吧！
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- So imagine you're at a party, and you can't believe that your friend or your spouse
- 假设你在参加派对，你无法接受你的朋友或者是配偶，
- isn't picking up on it that you want to leave early.
- 竟然没有注意到你想要早点离开。
- And you're thinking, "I gave you the look."
- 你会想，“我向你使过眼色了。”
- With a stranger, we have to start from scratch.
- 对待陌生人的时候，我们就需要从零开始。
- We tell the whole story, we explain who the people are, how we feel about them;
- 我们要讲清前因后果，我们会解释都有哪些人，以及我们对他们的看法；
- we spell out all the inside jokes. And guess what?
- 我们会解释清楚笑点在哪里。猜猜结果是什么？
- Sometimes they do understand us a little better. OK.
- 有时候他们确实能更好的理解我们。好的。
- So now that we know that talking to strangers matters, how does it work?
- 现在我们知道与陌生人的交流关系重大，但是为什么会这样呢？
- There are unwritten rules we tend to follow.
- 我们会遵循一些约定俗成的规矩，
- The rules are very different depending on what country you're in, what culture you're in.
- 这些规矩会因为你所在的国家和文化背景有所差异。
- In most parts of the US, the baseline expectation in public
- 在美国大多数地方，公共交流的底线是
- is that we maintain a balance between civility and privacy.
- 我们要维持礼貌和隐私的平衡。
- This is known as civil inattention.
- 也就是我们说的“礼节性疏忽”。
- So, imagine two people are walking towards each other on the street.
- 想象两个人在街道上面对面走近。
- They'll glance at each other from a distance. That's the civility, the acknowledgment.
- 他们会远距离观察对方。这是礼节，是对他人的认可。
- And then as they get closer, they'll look away, to give each other some space.
- 但是随着他们走近彼此，他们会移开视线，目的就是给对方一些个人空间。
- In other cultures, people go to extraordinary lengths not to interact at all.
- 在其他文化中，人们会尽力避免跟其他人有任何接触。
- People from Denmark tell me that many Danes are so averse to talking to strangers,
- 丹麦的朋友告诉我，很多丹麦人不愿意和陌生人讲话，
- that they would rather miss their stop on the bus than say "excuse me" to someone that they need to get around.
- 以至于他们宁愿坐过站也不愿意对别人说“接过”，好腾出地方让自己下车。
- So, instead, there's this elaborate shuffling of bags
- 他们只会通过故意移动背包
- and using your body to say that you need to get past, instead of using two words.
- 和肢体语言来告诉别人他们需要借过，而不是用简单的两个单词。
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| 重点单词 | 查看全部解释 | |||
| stark | [stɑ:k] | |||
| extraordinary | [iks'trɔ:dnri] | 联想记忆 | ||
| understand | [.ʌndə'stænd] | |||
| tend | [tend] | |||
| spouse | [spauz] | |||
| elaborate | [i'læbəreit] | 联想记忆 | ||
| acknowledgment | [ək'nɔlidʒmənt] | |||
| privacy | ['praivəsi] | 联想记忆 | ||
| civility | [si'viliti] | 联想记忆 | ||
| expectation | [.ekspek'teiʃən] | 联想记忆 |
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