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我们一直来受到的教育是"不要和陌生人说话,陌生人是危险的",本期TED演讲者Kio Stark女士却对这一观点提出质疑。她的经历和观察告诉了她：如果我们能够推翻对陌生人的成见会带来意想不到的惊喜。让我们终止无数的猜忌,创造一个更美好的世界吧！
n. 下水道，排水沟，消耗
v. 耗尽，排出，
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- It's the good feeling I got from being saved from the death trap of the storm drain by the old man,
- 这就是那位老人将我从雨篦子的“死亡陷阱”中“拯救”出来之后，我得到的那种美妙的感觉；
- or how I feel like part of a community when I talk to somebody on my train on the way to work.
- 或者是在我乘火车上班与别人交谈时，感觉自己是社群的一份子。
- Sometimes it goes further.
- 有时候还会更进一步。
- Researchers have found that people often feel more comfortable
- 研究表明，人们通常对陌生人
- being honest and open about their inner selves with strangers than they do with their friends and their families
- 敞开心扉相比对家人和朋友要更容易一些
- that they often feel more understood by strangers.
- 人们经常觉得更容易被陌生人理解。
- This gets reported in the media with great lament.
- 媒体十分悲观地报道了这一发现，
- "Strangers communicate better than spouses!" It's a good headline, right?
- 将其称作：“陌生人之间的交流要好过配偶之间！”这标题很抢眼，不是吗？
- I think it entirely misses the point.
- 但我觉得他们完全没有抓住关键点。
- The important thing about these studies is just how significant these interactions can be;
- 研究的核心是陌生人之间的互动有多重要；
- how this special form of closeness gives us something we need as much as we need our friends and our families.
- 这种特殊的亲近能够提供我们所需要的东西，就像我们需要朋友或者家人一样。
- So how is it possible that we communicate so well with strangers?
- 那么为什么我们和陌生人能交流得如此顺畅呢？
- There are two reasons. The first one is that it's a quick interaction. It has no consequences.
- 这当中有两个原因。其一在于这是一个快速的互动，并不会涉及到任何后果。
- It's easy to be honest with someone you're never going to see again, right? That makes sense.
- 对以后再也不会见到的人坦诚相见并没有特别难，对吧？这样说得通。
- The second reason is where it gets more interesting.
- 第二个理由要有趣得多。
- We have a bias when it comes to people we're close to. We expect them to understand us.
- 我们对亲近的人存在偏见。我们期待他们理解我们。
- We assume they do, and we expect them to read our minds.
- 我们默认得到了他们的理解，也期待他们会站在我们的角度思考。
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