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- And yet, I knew from the work I had done that if he had any of the things we were about to start testing for,
- 我的工作经验让我得知，如果经过哪些检查，发现他有什么问题，
- that those would ultimately be his identity,and if they were his identity they would become my identity,that that illness was going to take a very different shape as it unfolded.
- 那将永久成为他的特性，如果这是他的特性，也将会是我的特性，这将不同于病症最初呈现的那样。
- We took him to the MRI machine, we took him to the CAT scanner,we took this day-old child and gave him over for an arterial blood draw.
- 我们带他做核磁共振，带他做计算机化X射线轴向分层造影，我们带着这个出生仅一天的孩子做动脉抽血。
- We felt helpless.
- 我们感到无助。
- And at the end of five hours,
- 五个小时后，
- they said that his brain was completely clear and that he was by then extending his legs correctly.
- 医生们说他的大脑完全没问题，也可以完全正常伸展他的双腿。
- And when I asked the pediatrician what had been going on,she said she thought in the morning he had probably had a cramp.
- 当我问儿科医生这是怎么回事，她说，她觉得早上他可能抽筋了。
- But I thought how my mother was right.
- 我认为我的母亲是正确的。
- I thought, the love you have for your children is unlike any other feeling in the world,
- 我以为你对自己孩子的爱是不同于世界上任何其他感觉的，
- and until you have children, you don't know what it feels like.
- 直到你有孩子，你才知道那是什么样的感觉。
- I think children had ensnared me the moment I connected fatherhood with loss.
- 我想是孩子让我，认为自己不是个称职的父亲。
- But I'm not sure I would have noticed that if I hadn't been so in the thick of this research project of mine.
- 但我不确定自己会注意到，要不是我做了这么繁复的研究项目，
- I'd encountered so much strange love,and I fell very naturally into its bewitching patterns.
- 我遇到了太多奇怪的爱，然后我很自然地陷入其迷人的模式。
- And I saw how splendor can illuminate even the most abject vulnerabilities.
- 我看到光彩如何照亮最不幸的脆弱之处。
- During these 10 years, I had witnessed and learned the terrifying joy of unbearable responsibility,
- 在这 10 年期间，我曾目睹和了解到，那些难以承受的责任，
- and I had come to see how it conquers everything else.
- 我也看到了它如何克服一切苦难。
- And while I had sometimes thought the parents I was interviewing were fools,
- 我曾经有时会想，我正在采访的父母是傻瓜，
- enslaving themselves to a lifetime's journey with their thankless children and trying to breed identity out of misery,
- 让自己踏上给不知感恩的孩子们一生为奴的旅程，试图从痛苦中获得身份认同，我意识到，从研究开始那天起，我已建造了一块踏板，
- I realized that day that my research had built me a plank and that I was ready to join them on their ship.Thank you.
- 随时准备着与他们同舟共济。谢谢。
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