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家庭暴力和性侵犯经常被成为“女人的问题”。但在这个大胆又锋锐的话题里，贾克森·凯兹指出，这些问题，在本质上其实是男人的问题——并且他也告诉我们这些暴力行为是如何和我们所谓的“男子气概”挂钩的。这为我们——所有男人女人——吹响号角，号召我们看清这些暴力行为，并以身作则去改变它。Jackson Katz问了一个至关重要的问题，挑战当下的性虐待，强奸，和家庭虐待的现状：男人到底是怎么了？
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- And if we want to talk about male victims,
- 还有如果我们要谈男性受害者
- let's talk about male victims.
- 让我们谈谈男性受害者
- Most male victims of violence are the victims of other men's violence.
- 很多男性受害者被施暴于其他男性。
- So that's something that both women and men have in common.
- 所以如果男性和女性有些共同点，
- We are both victims of men's violence.
- 我们都是男性暴力下的受害者。
- So we have it in our direct self-interest,
- 所以我们都有各自的目的。
- not to mention the fact that most men that I know
- 事实上不得不说，我们知道很多男人拥有
- have women and girls that we care deeply about,
- 我们关心的女人和女孩子。
- in our families and our friendship circles and every other way.
- 在我们的家庭，我们的朋友圈子还有其他的。
- So there's so many reasons why we need men to speak out.
- 所以有很多原因解释为什么我们需要男人提出这问题。
- It seems obvious saying it out loud. Doesn't it?
- 这看起来很明显的需要说出来。不是吗？
- Now, the nature of the work that I do and my colleagues do
- 现在，我和我的同事正在做的是，
- in the sports culture and the U.S. military, in schools,
- 在传统的运动和美国军事和在学校，
- we pioneered this approach called the bystander approach
- 我们带领着这方略名为“旁观者策略”
- to gender violence prevention.
- 来防止性别暴力。
- And I just want to give you the highlights of the bystander approach,
- 还有我要特别给你们提出这策略的要点，
- because it's a big thematic shift,
- 因为这是很大的主题改观，
- although there's lots of particulars,
- 虽然有很多详细的要点，
- but the heart of it is, instead of seeing men as perpetrators
- 但这中心点是，不仅仅将男人看作施虐者，
- and women as victims,
- 女人是受害者，
- or women as perpetrators, men as victims,
- 或女人是施虐者，男人是受害者，
- or any combination in there.
- 或者任何一个组合。
- I'm using the gender binary. I know there's more
- 我在用着性别两极化。我知道的我们有的不仅仅是
- than men and women, there's more than male and female.
- 男人和女人。这世上不仅仅有男性和女性。
- And there are women who are perpetrators,
- 还有很多女人是施虐者，
- and of course there are men who are victims.
- 当然还有很多男人是受虐者。
- There's a whole spectrum.
- 这都是一系列的。
- But instead of seeing it in the binary fashion,
- 但是，然而将之当作是性别两极化，
- we focus on all of us as what we call bystanders,
- 我们注重在于我们就好比称之为旁观者，
- and a bystander is defined as anybody who is not
- 在这旁观者的意思是任何人在任何情况下，
- a perpetrator or a victim in a given situation,
- 如果不属于施虐者或被虐者，
- so in other words friends, teammates, colleagues,
- 换句话说就是朋友，队友，同事，
- coworkers, family members, those of us
- 一起工作的，家庭成员，
- who are not directly involved in a dyad of abuse,
- 甚至是不间接有关系的人们，
- but we are embedded in social, family, work, school,
- 但是我们在社交，家庭，工作，学校
- and other peer culture relationships with people
- 和其他同辈传统关系中与受虐者
- who might be in that situation. What do we do?
- 都是有所关联的。我们能做什么？
- How do we speak up? How do we challenge our friends?
- 我们该说什么？我们如何挑战我们的朋友？
- How do we support our friends? But how do we not
- 我们如何支持我们的朋友？我们如何能够
- remain silent in the face of abuse?
- 在暴力面前不保持沉默？
- Now, when it comes to men and male culture,
- 现在，当我们面对男性的传统，
- the goal is to get men who are not abusive
- 我们的目的是不暴力男人也要去
- to challenge men who are.
- 挑战那些施虐的男人。
- And when I say abusive, I don't mean just
- 还有当我说暴力倾向，
- men who are beating women.
- 我不是只说打女人的男人。
- We're not just saying a man whose friend
- 我们不是只说一个男人的朋友
- is abusing his girlfriend needs to stop the guy
- 正在对他女友施暴然后他需
- at the moment of attack.
- 阻止他朋友的施暴行为。
- That's a naive way of creating a social change.
- 这是很幼稚的改变社会的方法。
- It's along a continuum, we're trying to get men
- 这是个长远的过程，
- to interrupt each other.
- 我们在尝试让男人们互相影响。
- So, for example, if you're a guy and you're in a group of guys
- 所以，比方说，如果你是个男人然后和一班男人在
- playing poker, talking, hanging out, no women present,
- 玩扑克牌，谈天，逛街，没有女人在，
- and another guy says something sexist or degrading
- 然后一些男人说一些性别歧视或贬低
- or harassing about women,
- 或侮辱女人的话，
- instead of laughing along or pretending you didn't hear it,
- 与其加入取笑或当做没听见，
- we need men to say, "Hey, that's not funny.
- 我们须要男人说：“Hey，这一点都不好笑。
- You know, that could be my sister you're talking about,
- 你知道吗，你可能是在说着我的姐姐妹妹，
- and could you joke about something else?
- 你们可说些别的笑话吗？
- Or could you talk about something else?
- 或你们可以说其它话题吗？
- I don't appreciate that kind of talk."
- 我不赞成这类的话题。”
- Just like if you're a white person and another white person
- 就好象你是白人和另外一个白人
- makes a racist comment, you'd hope, I hope,
- 说个种族歧视的话题，你希望，我也希望，
- that white people would interrupt that racist enactment
- 有个白人会打岔那个话题，
- by a fellow white person.
- 是要来自个白人。
- Just like with heterosexism, if you're a heterosexual person
- 就好象你和异性恋的人一起，如果你是异性恋的人，
- and you yourself don't enact harassing or abusive behaviors
- 即使你不会对拥有不同性取向的人们
- towards people of varying sexual orientations,
- 做出些骚扰或暴力行为，
- if you don't say something in the face of other heterosexual people doing that,
- 如果你不在其他异性恋说些东西时即使打断，
- then, in a sense, isn't your silence
- 那么，照理来说，你的沉默是不是
- a form of consent and complicity?
- 代表着同意？
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