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这样经营友情
A friendship is pricelessand should be cherished, cultivated, and natured.
友情无价,它需要被珍惜,培养和经营。
Remembering the golden rule
牢记黄金准则
Without a doubt, the greatest humanrelations principle is to treat other people like you want to be treated.Friendship requires many qualities — unselfishness, genuine care for the otherperson, and the ability to listen when the other person needs to talk, to namea few. When you show respect for your friends and gratitude for theirfriendship, you'll be blessed in untold ways.
毋庸置疑,最坚不可摧的待人原则就是待人如己。友情需要许多品质:对他人无私,真诚的关怀,当他人需要时倾听对方的心声。当你表达对朋友的尊重和对这份友谊的感恩之情时,对你的庇佑和祝福也会通过各种方式来到你身边。
You can't know what has gone on in the rudeperson's life that day, but you can assume that his or her day hasn't gonewell. Maybe a loved one lost his job, her boss reprimanded her unjustly, he's comingdown with the flu, or she just found out that her teenager is doing drugs.
也许你的朋友那天表现得非常粗鲁无礼,你也许不知道在他身上到底发生了什么,但你可以假设他/她过得并不开心。也许是爱人失业了,也许是她的老板训斥她办事不公,可能是他染了流感,抑或是她刚发现自己的孩子在吸毒。
Whatever the cause of the rudeness, youdon't have to accentuate the problem. A kind word or a gentle, understandingsmile may help the person more than returned rudeness would.
无论是什么理由让他/她如此野蛮无礼,你也不需要去强调人家的错误。比起同样粗鲁的行为,用一句友好的问候、一个善解人意的笑容作为回应,更能帮助他们。
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