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Hey there psych2go family.
嘿，psych2go的家族成员们。
Before we begin, we would like to point out that this video doesn't just apply to females or hetero relationships, it applies to any relationship in general. Now, let's begin the video.
在我们开始之前，我想要指出的是，这段视频不仅仅适用于女性或者异性恋关系，它适用于任何关系。现在，我们开始吧。
Is there someone you've been crushing on lately and you're just dying to know if they're into you?
最近你有没有喜欢的人？你是不是超级想知道他是不是也喜欢你？
You feel sparks flying between you and a certain someone, but you're wondering if there's a real chemistry or if it's all in your head.
你感觉自己和某个人之间火花四溅，但是你不确定你们之间是否真的有化学反应，还是说只是你一厢情愿。
What about being if a long-time pal of yours is starting to see you as more than a friend?
如果你的一个老朋友开始把你看得不只朋友这么简单怎么办？
Psychology, being the study of the human mind and behaviors, can help decode the messages being sent to you through body language, facial expression, mannerisms and tones of voice.
心理学是研究人类思想和行为的学科，它可以解读通过身体语言、面部表情、举止和声调传递给你的信息。
So with that said, here are 10 possible signs that they like you.
也就是说，以下就是他喜欢你的10种迹象。
One, their body language tells you they like you.
第一，他的肢体语言告诉你他喜欢你。
You notice that special someone leaning in or gesturing exciting when they talk to you.
你会注意到那个特别的人在和你说话的时候会向前倾或者做一些令人兴奋的手势。
Maybe they smile more or adjust their clothes and hair when you're around.
当你在身边的时候，他可能会经常笑或者整理衣服、头发。
Someone's body language can be very telling about their feelings towards you, so pay close attention to the way they move or act around you.
肢体语言可以很好地表达他对你的感觉，所以要密切关注他在你身边的举动。
All the fidgeting and gesturing could be some of the nonverbal signs that they're interested in you and making an effort to let you know.
所有的坐立不安和手势都可能是一些非语言信号，表明他对你感兴趣，并努力想让你知道。
Two, they find excuses to touch you.
第二，他会找借口触碰你。
Do they seem to touch your hand or shoulder when talking to you? Do they do this only when talking to you? It could mean something indeed.
他和你说话时是否会摸你的手或者肩膀呢？他只在跟你说话的时候才这么做吗？这可能有某种暗示。
Most people express their affection towards others through physical touch.
大多数人会通过身体接触来表达对他人的感情。
So people have a habit of finding excuses to touch those they feel attracted to.
所以人们习惯找借口去触碰那些他觉得有吸引力的人。
That brief brush of your hands or even a playful punch in the shoulder, it all counts.
手轻轻一擦，或者是开玩笑地把手搭在你的肩膀上，这些动作都很重要。
These little touches could be their way of subtlety telling you they like you.
这些小小的触碰可能是他微妙地告诉你他喜欢你的方式。
Three, they introduce you to their friends.
第三，他会把你介绍给他的朋友。
It's very important for many people that their friends know about who they're interested in, and that their friends approve of the person they're trying to pursue.
对很多人来说，让他的朋友知道他感兴趣的人是谁是非常重要的，让他的朋友认可他想要追求的人是非常重要的。
Did they ask you to meet all their friends or suggest all of you hang out together? This could be the reason why.
他有没有让你见见他所有的朋友，或者建议你们一起出去玩？这可能就是原因所在。
This may also be their way of trying to figure out how you fit into their life, what you think of their closest friends, and if you two are compatible together.
这也可能是，他在试图弄清楚你会如何融入他的生活方式，如何看待他最亲密的朋友，或者你们俩是否合得来。
Four, they help you with errands.
第四，他会帮你跑腿。
Wow, they really wanna spend time grocery shopping with you or help you with their laundry, maybe they like you.
哇，如果他真的很想和你一起去杂货店购物或者帮你洗衣服，那么或许他喜欢你。
When a friend has no problem volunteering their time, and joining you to complete mundane errands, this could be their way of being generous with their time and attention.
当一个朋友自愿贡献他的时间并和你一起完成平凡的差事时，这可能是他慷慨奉献时间和精力的方式。
It also shows you that they don't care about what you do as long as you're together, because they love being around you.
这也表明，只要你们在一起，他不关心你做什么，因为他喜欢在你身边。
Five, they share interests with you.
第五，他和你有共同的兴趣。
If someone likes you, you can expect they'll share many of their interests with you.
如果有人喜欢你，你可以期待他会和你分享很多兴趣。
They might excitedly tell you about this new video game coming out, or their favorite album from their favorite artist, or which TV show they're binging on right now.
他可能会兴奋地告诉你一款新的电子游戏、他最喜欢的艺术家专辑，或者他正在看的电视节目。
They might show you memes and random videos they find funny, or ask you to watch some of their most beloved films.
他可能会给你看他觉得有趣的表情包和随机视频，或者让你看一些他最喜欢的电影。
Six, they take pictures with you.
六，他会和你一起拍照。
This is a lesser known, but trustworthy way of gauging whether or not someone's interested in you.
这是一种用来判断某人是否对你感兴趣的不太为人所知但却值得信赖的方式。
Have you noticed they like to take pics of you or the two of you together? Do they post about you on their Instagram stories?
你有没有注意到他喜欢拍你或你们在一起的照片？他会在Instagram上发你的照片吗？
Someone who likes you will enjoy bragging about you to their friends and followers, proudly sharing with others that you two are spending time together.
喜欢你的人会喜欢向他的朋友和追随者吹嘘你，自豪地与别人分享你们在一起的时光。
Seven, they make plans with you.
第七，他会和你一起制定计划。
Do they ask to hang out with you? We don't necessarily mean a grandeur date either.
他会邀请你一起出去玩吗？我们并不是说那种盛大的约会。
If they're shy, this could mean asking you to study together or help them on a project.
如果他很害羞，这可能意味着要求你一起学习或帮助他完成一个项目。
Did you mention something you're interested in, and they responded eagerly saying they'd love to go with you, or that you two should definitely do that sometime? Well they might like you.
你有没有提到自己感兴趣的事情，然后他热切地回应说很想和你一起去，或者你们俩一定要找个时间一起去？如果是，那么他可能喜欢你。
Eight, they message you a lot.
第八，他会给你发很多信息。
If someone's been texting and chatting with you frequently, there's a good chance they're into you, especially if they're the one who initiates it.
如果有人经常和你发短信聊天，那么他很有可能是喜欢你，尤其是如果他是主动和你聊天的话。
Do they greet you good morning and good night? Do they ask how your day went, eagerly responding to your messages with thoughtful replies?
他会向你问好，问你今天过得怎么样，热切地以深思熟虑的方式回复你的邮件。
These things show that you're frequently on their mind and they wanna stay in constant contact with you.
这些行为说明你经常出现在他的脑海里，他想要和你保持联系。
Nine, they ask you plenty of questions.
第九，他会问你很多问题。
Asking questions is how many of us try to get to know each other better. And it's also a subtle way people use to show you that they like you.
我们会通过问问题来更好地了解彼此，同时问问题也是人们用来表达他喜欢你的一种微妙的方式。
Pay attention to the things they ask you and how they react to your answers.
注意他问你的问题以及他对你的回答的反应。
Questions that go beyond ordinary small talk, about how you're doing or what your passions are and what your life is like convey an interest in learning more about you.
有一些问题是超越平常闲聊的，比如说你现在怎么样，你的爱好是什么，你的生活是怎样的，这些问题表明他想进一步了解你。
And ten, they want to be with you all the time.
第十，他想时时刻刻和你在一起。
If they love being around you, near complaining that you're spending too much time together, then there's a good chance they're romantically interested in you.
如果他喜欢和你在一起，你俩在一起的时间已经长到了那种足以抱怨的程度，那么他很有可能对你感兴趣。
Do they still miss you when they can't see you even though they text you all the time and just hung out with you on the weekend?
即使他们一直给你发短信，周末也和你在一起，但他们还是会想念你？
After all, when we first fall in love with someone we want nothing more than to be alone with them and spend most of our time together.
毕竟，当我们第一次爱上一个人时，我们最想要的就是和他独处，花很多时间和他在一起。
Love is a many splendored thing that we genuinely desire.
爱是我们真诚渴望的美好事物。
So it can be frustrating when someone you're into is also into you, but won't just come out and admit it.
所以，当你喜欢的人也喜欢你但又不愿承认的时候，这是很令人沮丧的。
Generally, passionate declarations of love are not the main stock in someone's wheelhouse so they do what they can, sending these signals and hoping the person they like picks up on it.
一般来说，充满激情的爱的宣言并不是某人的主导力量，所以他会尽其所能，发出这些信号，希望他喜欢的那个人能够听到。
Any stories about confirmed crushes you'd like to share? Or, are you in a situation where you're still unsure if they like you? Share with us in the comments below.
你有想分享的暗恋故事吗？或者，你是否仍然不确定他是否喜欢你？请在下方评论区和我们分享。
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