Just go back? Yeah. Cross your arms up front.
向后到? 是的. 两手交叉胸前
Now? Whenever you're ready.
现在吗? 准备好了就可以开始
Okay.
好
Good. Very good.
好的.非常好
All right, Teresa, Mark. You're up.
下面, 特莱茜, 马克. 你们来
Okay.
好
Now l want you to name something...
下面我要你们列出一些...
that you did that affected your partner...
你们所做过的, 对你的伴侣有影响的...
and that you're not proud of.
并且是负面影响的事情
I had this thing with porno on the computer, sort of.
在我的电脑上, 有一些色情杂志什么的
Actually, I want you to write it down, not say it.
事实上, 我希望你们写下来 不是说出来
I got a little preoccupied
我以前很喜欢这东西
Okay.
好吧
I want you to put it on the paper that you got for a reason.
我希望你们把它写在一张纸上, 列出理由
Okay.
好吧
Now make sure it's something the other person doesn't know about...
确保这是你的伴侣所不知道的事情...
that they don't know.
他们毫不知情
Then you are going to give it to the other person...
然后你们互相交换纸条...
All right.
好了
and the other person is never going to look at it.
彼此不许偷看纸上的内容
Ever.
永远不能看
That's trust.
这就是信任