Birthday depression: Why birthdays are so hard
“生日回避型人格”冲上热搜 引发讨论与共鸣
Not everyone is excited about birthdays. There are many people out there who never feel excited about it. They find the day as normal as any other day. Nothing in their routine changes in the name of celebration.
并非所有人都热爱过生日,很多人甚至从未因此激动过,生日对他们而言就如同往常一样,并没有任何稀奇之处。
This may be common in those who are in their 50’s or late 50’s, 60’s, 70’s...
这可能在那些50多岁、快50岁、60多岁、70多岁的人身上很常见......
For some people in this age, life becomes a journey that is going on and on and on at a faster pace.
对这个年龄段的一些人来说,生活变成了一段不断加速的旅程。
They feel like losing control of their time and every passing year intensifies the fear of dying soon.
他们感觉失去了对时间的控制,每过一年就会加剧对死亡的恐惧。
This is not good as it stimulates negativity.
然而,这并不好,因为它会刺激消极情绪。
But some people do so and they can’t help it.
但有些人会情不自禁地这样想。
Their birthday is nothing more than bad news for them.
他们的生日对他们来说就是个坏消息。
Some people do not like to come to the notice of others due to any possible reason on this earth.
在这个世界上,可能由于各种各样的原因,有些人不喜欢引起别人的注意。
They just don’t like it.
他们就是不喜欢。
You may feel stunned about this nature but they like to remain as part of the crowd.
你可能会对这种天性感到震惊,但他们喜欢留在人群中。
Birthdays are contrary to this feeling as they bring sudden attention to people.
过生日却是会突然引起他人注意,与他们想要的感觉截然相反。
There is also another part of the population that thinks it is a waste of money.
还有一部分人认为这是浪费钱。
Their logic is, why lose hard-earned money for the pleasure of three to four hours?
他们的逻辑是:“为什么要为了3、4个小时的快乐而花费辛苦赚来的钱呢?”
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