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This point is this: there are certain relationship mistakes women make over and over again. Like sleeping in a bad position, we sometimes don't realize we're blundering and repeating until the "ouch" factor comes into play.
问题是：女性在谈恋爱的时候，会一次又一次的犯这些错误。比如睡觉姿势差，有时候我们并没有意识到自己正在犯错，并且一直重复着，直到被逮。
Well, it's time to stop. Quitters sometimes prosper, especially when lousy habits get left behind. Here's how to have a healthy relationship and a list of blunders we wish ladies would stop making.
额，是时候停止这些举动了。放弃有时候会让你们的感情越来越好，尤其是放弃一些糟糕的习惯时。那怎样才能拥有健康恋情呢？我们列出了一张清单，希望女同胞们不要再犯这些错误了。
1. You think you'll never get over him.
1. 你觉得自己永远都忘不了他。
You will. Two months and several powdered donuts later... you'll feel better.
你会的。两个月、几个搽粉甜甜圈之后……你会感觉好些的。
2. You hack into his emails or phone looking for suspicious messages.
2. 你查看他的邮件或手机，看看有没有可疑信息。
And then you yell at him for the "k thnx bye" text he sent to his female co-worker two months ago. "k thnx" is not code for "hot steamy sex." (Is it?)
然后你就会冲他大吼，因为你看到了他两个月前发给女同事的"k thnx，拜拜"短信。"k thnx"并不是"火热的性"的编号。（对不？）
3. You think he has to be interested in everything you do, think and say.
3. 你认为他必须对你做的事、想的事、说的事都感兴趣。
When it comes down to it, we zone out when men talk about circuit boards, right? Having a best friend outside a relationship is a good thing.
谈及这一点，当男人谈电路板的时候，我们也会走神，对不？恋情之外，还有自己的好朋友也是很重要的。
4. You displace your anger.
4. 你转移了自己的愤怒。
Freud was right with this one. If you're mad at him because he ate your tasty leftovers out of the fridge, tell him you're mad at him because he ate your tasty restaurant leftovers out of the fridge. Don't turn it into a commitment issue.
弗洛伊德对这一点的理解是正确的。如果你因为他把你放在冰箱里打包的美味佳肴给吃了而生气，那就告诉他们你是因为这个而生气的。不要把事情转移到承诺上来。
5. You put so much energy into the idea of a fairy-tale romance that you're disappointed with anything less.
5. 你太过关注童话般的浪漫，所以你对他的'不浪漫'有点失望。
6. You wait for someone to find you, instead of going out and finding someone yourself.
6. 你等待某人找到你，而不是主动去找适合你的那个人。
7. You think that a perfect relationship should be easy.
7. 你以为完美的恋情取之容易。
Relationships require work and compromise. A perfect relationship means doing those things well.
恋情需要你们花工夫、需要妥协。完美的恋情意味着你们能很好的做到这一点。
8. You drop your friends when you're falling in love.
8. 恋爱的时候，你会抛弃朋友。
Friends help define who we are and we need them when things get tough.
朋友能让我们知道自己是谁，遇到问题时，我们也需要朋友。
9. You think that getting a boyfriend or husband will solve all your problems.
9. 你以为男朋友或老公会帮你解决一切问题。
No one can fix our lives for us!
没有人能解决我们自己生活中遇到的问题。
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