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Signs you are not living for yourself

你不是为自己而活的迹象

You have trouble defining your own desires

你很难定义自己的欲望

People who live for others too much often find it difficult to realize what they really want. The reason is because they choose to ignore their own thoughts in order to satisfy the wishes of those around them. Gradually, they become disoriented and do not know what they need or really want.

太为别人而活的人往往很难意识到自己真正想要的是什么。原因是他们为了满足周围人的愿望而选择忽略自己的想法。渐渐地，他们迷失了方向，不知道自己需要什么，真正想要什么。

Sometimes these people do not dare to speak their true feelings, even though they want others to listen. For example, you often avoid telling coworkers that they make you feel tired,“They didn't mean it. If I say that, I will hurt them”. But, unknowingly, you are denying an important fact: They are the ones who hurt you.

有时这些人不敢说出自己的真实感受，即使他们想让别人倾听。例如，你经常避免告诉同事是他们让你感到累了，你会说:“他们不是故意的。”如果我那样说，我就会伤害他们。”但是，在不知不觉中，你否认了一个重要的事实:他们就是伤害你的人。

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